thanks so much shallon! as an update i did end up getting a cease&desist after months of ignoring her (she violated it immediate, filed a restraining order). hoping i can find ways to take care of myself, she’s continuing to accuse me of doing the exact things she’s been doing to me. if you have any tips on how to accept people living in an entirely different reality (I think she has BPD) i’ve been at a loss!

I can’t thank you enough. I have a totally different perspective now on what I thought was “baggage” love you you ruthless bad bitch. ♥️